One of the things that prevent many from making a singles serious relationship and deep with my mate, is the fact that they are “prisoners” distorted patterns of thinking something regarding love, relationships, marriage , etc.. I mean especially to all those myths, modern Western society, backed by media burned in our minds over the years, which considerably distorted by the piece of our world.
When the distorted world view in terms of love – relationships – marriage , and has no basis in reality, it is easy to understand why things do not work. Let’s go together on some of those myths encountered during my years as a matchmaker , accompanying many of us examine them one by one.
Click – Chemistry – love at first sight
“Andelknu one another.” “There was chemistry between us has been the beginning.” “We had a click – that’s it. It was love at first sight. “And other such settings can be heard from them of millions of young couples in Israel and abroad, when they recover, her eyes shining, the initial stage of their acquaintance.
Years on the media fed us the wonderful wonders it “love at first sight.” Books, television and film series, added more inflated the same “click” first created between the couple.
No wonder the – yes, a large majority, that “captured” the myth of the click – Chemistry – love at first sight, really believe that is the essence of her true love, we wish her great all our lives. From here you can also understand the disappointment and frustration that accompany us whenever we go out on a date with someone, and nothing of what myth “promised” not happening.
I have news for you: Click – Chemistry – drifting – delirious – love at first sight – all these and more – although they are things that happen in real life, but they do not have (almost) nothing to do with love. Certainly not with the essence of love.
There is no such animal called “Love the moment.” There is no such thing as falling in love with someone you do not know. It’s unrealistic dream, an illusion. Distorted myth origins, was burned in our minds for thousands of years, but between him and true love has nothing to do.
Click – Chemistry – love at first sight is certainly a wonderful feeling, but can not be mistaken – this is what is called a total of – falling in love. “Electricity” went on between you and a girl or a spouse can lead to an intoxicating adventure no doubt, but not necessarily stable and genuine relationship – let alone true love.
Apparently, as studies prove, the intensity of emotion Msatltat the body while falling in love, is caused by molecules NGF, or in a “nerve growth factor.” A recent study in Italy, is the increase in the level of NGF in the bodies of 58 fresh love, from a group consisting of singles and people involved in the jury long-term relationships. Needless to say, based on evidence and research, the NGF level in the body back to acceptable levels after a year.
In a Click – Chemistry – love at first sight, people tend to get confused and interpret the distorted their emotional situation. Ecstasy elated that surround them – in most cases, the result generated sexual relationship – they create the illusion of love. Love? Absolutely not. This fall in love, perhaps at or partner, but mainly fascinating situation – created intoxicating.
I hold the opinion that people who fall at first sight, do that, usually, out of desperation. They jump with great enthusiasm into the relationships created by dating uncertainty, created out of a deep anxiety about the future. They want to “swallow the world” here and now, because deep in their heart of hearts they really are deterred from investing the kind of effort required to meet their spouses new.
Late mother would say that “cooking fast, burned quickly.” Although cooking is referred to, but it can also adopt when speaking of love. When you begin a relationship into high gear, hormones working overtime, refined D – Nur flying everywhere, can be see the “fire” around the corner.
Simple explanation – exhilaration exhilaration, feelings that characterize the Christian connections at first sight, they of course are not natural conditions. Beyond that they are sabotaging any possibility of reasoned and rational thinking, they also prevent (almost) any attempt to get to know your spouse.
Life as in nature – after all also comes down a hill. After that period, sometimes short, sometimes even more short, we return Lmzvino natural emotional. Tories down, hormones relax, Fireworks D – Nur fade, and ecstasy ends.
Then we discover, the knight of our dreams, that swept him power so great, is a superficial, beyond the attractive exterior, he has nothing to offer. And then we find that suddenly, The Princess Bride, this electric currents which sent us, is indeed a young, handsome, open, very loving life, but we do not really mind to nothing in common.
Might be surprised to know, but based on my many years of experience in the field of matchmaking dating, I can testify that most loves truth forged, led to serious and significant relationships – sometimes even married – were not at first sight, not even in “Mel” or ” Chemistry. ”
Love, I believe, will weave her slowly, gently, while examining all possible aspects. Love, I believe, can be built out of discretion, sensitivity, cooperation, mutual openness, with a lot of goodwill, but also with great care.
There will be no misunderstandings, I definitely think that the weight of the initial enthusiasm for physical attraction, but we must not mistake them. They are without doubt an important element in contact centers, provided that same time, the couple built a relationship of human and emotionally true, such that each partner gets to know the other’s inner personality
What makes a woman want a man do you have or you had a previous friend was a crush on a man he was a maniac? The same man that treats her badly and she still wanted him and stayed with him about, or worse? Pursued him? Have you ever wondered why a woman would be willing to come out with a man like that? Why women put up with assholes is that these bastards make a woman feel . In this article I’m going to tell you much more interested in a woman that makes her feel like a man than a man that makes her think. If you divide the forces operated us as human beings, we can say roughly that 2 opposing forces: emotion and reason. Reason is the force that drives the world and most men is an emotion that drives the women. I can give you a simple example of an emotion? Try to remember the last time you were actually residential, felt a strong physical stimulation, you have an erection you just came to fuck someone. At that point when you just residential if I ask you to solve a complicated math trick most of you probably had great difficulty. Why? That once operated on us a lot of emotion is difficult for us to run our logic. So it’s the same with women? Once a woman feels an emotion to someone, that offsets her emotion with reason. That’s why we see strange phenomena, such as women fall for bastards. It is important to understand that women do not feel attracted to men that make them think . Women feel attraction toward men that make them feel . What do most men when they speak with a girl?
They enter into the conversation logically . Because men are logical types are entering into a logical conversation, informative because that’s what they used to do it through the media and because most comfortable for them. Once a man talking to a logical conversation is actually broadcasting her? “I do not know anything about girls and I have no experience with women.” Instead, a man should incorporate feelings and make a woman feel like a conversation. How? It can be expressed in the type of questions he asks: “What is most annoying you this week?” Or: “When the last time you felt sexy?”. He can do this by his facial features? Feelings features, radicalize the faces he makes, or the looks he sends (We’ll discuss it in depth in “hypnotic gaze”). Women essentially driven by emotion. If they have a desire or mood , they will do something if not then they will not do it. They are less driven by considerations of logic or benefit (of course, to some extent? Woman did not run into the road that came to her). To get the girl to be with you You’ve got to make her feel. You have to give her a range of emotions? Good feelings like joy, appreciation, closeness and warmth but also bad feelings like? Anger, sadness, mystery, curiosity. Ask her questions would please her, upset her, tell her happy things about yourself, sad things. The most important thing to make her feel! Men’s classic mistake is to talk to a woman in a logical form, give her a lot of knowledge and information and make her feel. All methods and tools you receive in this book Our courses are designed to teach you how to make a woman feel. Be the same man who came sweeping the leg by a woman that he gives her the experience of emotions. Now talk about one of the most important emotions to make a woman feel – attraction
Dictionary by dictionary definition of the word Sapir attraction: “1. Dragging, dragging. 2. A strong tendency to the person or object, a desire to get close to someone or something.” Hey attracted a same emotion that makes people want to be with each other. Attraction is sexual excitement makes you want to do for any girl to be with her. Withdrawal does not have to be mutual! By art of seduction attraction can come from one while the other did not last at all or very little drawn. There are some very important things to understand about the attraction: men and women are very different and important to understand what is causing the girl to continue to choose very different from what is causing the girl to choose to continue. We as men very logical people, that our psychological structure? Follow the logic and women unlike us, are very emotional. Sentiment among women plays an important role especially in relation to choosing a pair son. This attraction is very strong and powerful emotion, so we have to create in women the emotion. The problem that we as men try to affect the logic of the girl and not her emotional – we have to make her feel attraction. You can not convince a girl to be with us and you can not explain why the girl should be with us and certainly no use to impress her? The goal is always to create the emotion in her so-called attraction. Guys guess what? girls do not have the money to your . Also not all that care to them how you look . They are not superficial like you ! What makes her feel: “I want it now” This man’s show features masculine power? determination, resourcefulness, assertiveness, honesty, authenticity . What makes a man a girl to understand that these qualities? SUB COMMUNICATION, silent communication, Nonverbal communication. How long does it take you to decide if a girl pulls you or not? Half a second. You look at how she looks fast. How long it takes a woman to decide? Few hours because she was looking for those qualities in a man. Is it possible to take the world’s biggest Halplf teach him how to access the first ten seconds the most attractive male to show that? Yes, you can easily (eye contact, speaking slowly and other things we discuss them below.) Yes, but then the woman finds out that her pepper. Always remember – A man went fast woman, a woman takes more time. Men tend to be more part external and women looking for patterns of behavior . If you tell a girl: Hello how are you, where are you from?? This regular communication, Nonverbal communication is what’s under the surface. There are 2 types of nonverbal communication:
• 1) Your body language.
• 2) how the environment reacts to you.
Think about a celebrity who has a very weak tone of voice and scared looking girl in the eye, however, he is famous, the environment will respond to it very probably will appeal to girls. Other hand can be a regular guy who has a strong patterns and body language and meet a girl and she will continue to. Women better than at reading nonverbal communication. You too can learn to read this communication as women. Examples of this kind of communication: eye contact, tone of voice, body language, your energy level, whether you’re comfortable environment where you are, do you have control over your emotions, do you have an impact on the emotions of other people around, do you hear sure what you say, how you express yourself freely. All of these things are important in many of the content of what you say . Many times we use the metaphor of the ancient man to explain the phenomena of attraction, why? Because modern man opened his lifestyle only 2,000 years and tens of thousands of years for our small tribes with very different dynamics and evolve to be what we are. Suppose we are in the stone age and you are the boss in the cave. Something happens and you’re not the boss in the cave of prehistoric man. Cave women know how you’re not the boss? conduct your changes . Suppose you Halplf cave and suddenly you’ll be the boss, what would happen? You will begin to behave differently. a girl being in another a man who behaves in a attractive. and suddenly behave differently, it would change completely the behavior of her with you. The course I will demonstrate exactly how body language should show that such workshops will guide area you will follow these rules in order to create automatic attraction in women. I also surround the whole subject in depth and explain why this occurs and how the effect could be exploited to our advantage. We said that a man took a woman by looks, even though women now muddy the attractive woman beneath the surface it will still be attractive, but a man’s behavior can change in a second. That’s why you can have an amazing conversation with a woman and suddenly she continued falling. At first you did everything right, and suddenly started to behave differently and then she just loses interest . Think you were talking to a really beautiful girl and suddenly you turn around and sees the same girl with a mustache and 10 pounds. When a woman sees these behaviors, she immediately begins to feel attraction. And even if logically you do not her type, emotionally it will last you
Can point to several features that affect our ability to attract the magnet of people – some of them here Convention:
Looks?
Body language?
Energy we radiate aura around us?
Confidence?
Clothing?
Behavior?
Smile?
Walking?
The bad news – it’s hard to revolutionize the dry appearance and data.
The good news – looks like a negligible effect – compared to what is attributed to him, on our continued ability to the opposite sex, as well as our looks extremely affected by our moods and other parameters.
OK-So if it’s not a direct result of the shows and other factors that we have no control over why some people magnet to other prominent social events, and produce energy around them attractive on a date or in any meeting (job interview, business meeting) than those who simply do not do it?
Where it all begins – it all begins in Inkeutnu, without going into surgery for far-reaching psychological theories – just touch a simple fact – we are social creatures having sex with the environment from the moment Hivoldnu (or some say even before that) – our self-confidence, sense of self, our view of ourselves as equals and value are built up Lbegrotinu shaped Minkeutnu actually education and influenced by our parents and we get confidence and sense of self-esteem of parents themselves.
If it is at all possible to improve it – it Mmazn past the age Inkeutnu?
The good news – can be programmed ourselves again.
Ability to attract the magnet of people is primarily a direct result of the recognition of self-worth each of us as an equal and valuable.
Can I catch myself attractive?
Can I catch myself sexy?
Can I catch myself as having value?
Am I worth?
Would I recommend myself?
When we perceive ourselves as equals and not as a statement really value that we do not really believe in it, we Nsdre this environment, Nsdre environment: I’m worth, I’m sexy, you should get to know me, you should create a dialogue with me and it is also true introductions, even job interviews and meetings business.
How to do it – intensive work on the sense of self and recognition of self-esteem – it can be through coaching, through quality workshops, through other power from another domain (a psychologist, holistic treatments, etc.) and also can anyone be alone with himself and his immediate surroundings to .
In my opinion, such a process should work together – from the inside out as well as from the outside to the face – body and soul to the body to the mind – body language release of the release of the pelvis, providing mobility to the body to produce more traffic light, confident and loose (loose body language creates interest and energy around us than stored body language) I personally managed using tools from here and Tantra.
Another question that can go then – why the most prominent man pulling a relatively good looks?
Thought – self-fulfilling prophecy – a good-looking people build their initial confidence in the LOOK on their transmitters and energy security as a result that creates the attraction, each one of us find the things inside them, he chooses to base his defense.
We know many cases of people who look good and really did not stand out or create a magnetic energy events around people who look likely to contrast medium which attract or create an amazing energy environment that attracts the opposite sex.